“‘The baby you have is the baby you were destined to have. It was meant to be.’ That’s what all the adoption people tell you, anyway. I like to think it’s true. But everything else in the world seems so completely random. What if one little thing I said, or did, could have made it all fall apart? What if I’d chosen another life for myself, or another person? We might have never found each other. What if I’d been raised differently? What if my mother had never been sick? What if I’d actually had a good father? What if… What if… What if?”
I am a HUGE Grey's fan and love Meredith's speeches. This week got me thinking.
WHAT IF....
I've often thought this along the way but it seems to have a whole new meaning now.
What If I'd stayed at college
What If I'd never moved to Huddersfield
What If I took the other job
What If I'd stayed with the other guy
What If i'd stuck to my guns and made him wait for our first date
What If I'd never said yes
What if I'd listened to the doctors and given up
Would I still have ended up right where I am today? or would I have something completely different?
It doesn't bare thinking about in my opinion and What If no longer matters.
“Your life is a gift. Accept it. No matter how screwed up or painful it seems to be. Some things are going to work out as if they were destined to happen. As if they were just meant to be.”
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